Monthly Archives: August 2015

This year theme continues….

The word “fear” continues to pop up for the last few conversations in different occasions.

Today I went to CCLS info session, Elly the director of the program gave us the intro as well as the requirements for this program. She mentioned that women often have fears when facing career choice, or in any job in nature. Emotions shouldn’t dedicate how a person behave. One will stuck in an old pattern of behavior and hardly find herself to change when her attitude didn’t change. Therefore, this program is designed to help women to get to know themselves, renew their attitude and find confidence in what they are gifted to work with.

I’ll have interview next tuesday, I hope I can get in~ It’ll be challenging for sure, since there’ll be three placements through this semester. We have to be motivated and initiative to talk to people…. eee…. scary!!!!

夢見荔枝

昨晚做了一些很有趣的夢. 首先我夢見我跟另外一個人在同一個team. 我們跟其他隊伍比賽,圍繞著一個特定的route 在每一個點要 check in, 然後看哪一隊最快完成。在每一個checkin point 有一個像ipad 的screen 在牆壁上,我們要 yell at the screen 然後拍卡。夢中要不斷地跑,感覺很累!

接下來的夢,我夢見媽媽的手錶在我口袋裡。我嘗試把那個昂貴的手錶帶回加拿大,但是又害怕被抽稅。結果那個夢不了了之~ 接下來媽媽跟我要去一個餐廳吃飯,路上有很多荔枝樹,而且還掉到地上,路上滿滿的荔枝…. 我好想吃呢~ 奇怪夢裡的荔枝樹長得好像矮矮的椰子樹,哈哈, 這個夢真有趣!

繼續禱告

今天大姐約我上去喝咖啡聊天. 感謝主透過這次談話當中給了我一些啟發.  她將要開業的公司需要admin上的幫忙,她也邀請我幫她做parttime。 這個九月將要到Kwantlen 讀 CCLS, 我說讓我讀完再看看我工作方向是什麼。我害怕說英文,交際,大姐告訴我說其實每個女生都有這樣的經歷。

要勇敢,要大膽踏出去是我今天最印象深刻的message … 最重要是知道神的心意,她說 making mistakes aren’t commiting sins. 不是每次做錯事就是犯罪。這是她從 38歲那年第一次出來工作時,神給她的話. 每天都是新的一天,縱然犯錯但不是犯罪. 她也告訴我她如何決定從一份工作到另外一份工作,到最後決定自己創業。 一步一步都需要不斷地禱告,尋求神的話語和力量。

她也問到我們想不想生小孩. 我告訴她我的憂慮來自於我媽媽對我的期望. 她對我哥的失望,轉移到我身上 希望我貢獻社會的種種說法. 大姐提醒我,媽媽 還沒有信主,她的心意不見得是神的心意。我結婚了,就應當跟我丈夫二人共同設計未來. 也就是說我們的未來,什麼時候生小孩,要不要工作,應該我們自己兩個來決定。她這樣一說,我的focus 確實又轉移回來到神的身上了。 因為見到媽媽的傷心,我想要討好她,卻忘記神託付給我的也許不是我媽媽想的那樣。

嗯,我知道了~ 繼續禱告! 讓神的話語來帶領我們!

Life goes on – like it or not

It seems life doesn’t always go so smoothly, and definitely not going the way I wanted it. I’ve been wanting to work with Bear in an same organization, at least I can see him more often. I’ve been wanting the house in HK will be sold soon, such as right now, so that we can get a house here in this maple land. I’ve been wanting to step up of this life game, get a job and earn some bling bling.

I sense that I’ve been taking all this too slowly …. yet, my heart is racing for all these come true. Maybe it’s time to really slow down, pause, think, pray, seek, ask, meditate, worship Him, adore Him, talk to Him, listen to Him….

Here is the distance a huge gap between us, God and I. Many times this whispering voice told me to go back to the Words. Open up the Bible and see what He is saying today. I’m so neglect to do so, and I wonder why…. I became that mediocre person, that so called Christian who doesn’t even want to go to church on Sunday. I became that person, dreaming of one thing and sitting there to do nothing.

Stress does built up within me when my brother doesn’t meet my parents’ expectations. These expectation somehow turn to me, if my brother doesn’t become what they want, at least I can turn out to be that person. Why? Why? Why? My heart is screaming this is so unfair. Why do I have to be that person? Ironically, I wanted to be that person. A person who is driven by goals and purposes, who doesn’t afraid of failure, who doesn’t mind those mean coworkers as long as my job sustain my living…. There a person who will contribute to the society, cheerful and mindful of other people.

I must admit I lost my dream…. I’ve been saying that for a long time….. I’m lost of who I am and what I should do. If hubby isn’t here to support me, I don’t even know where I will be today. This is what I’m thankful for, in time of trouble, He gave me such a loving husband to support me no matter what. Such loving person who doesn’t judge me and love me as I am. Thank you! I love you~

Shit happens

What do you do if you have a useless brother? A person who doesn’t care shit of what he doess to his family. A person who always makes shit for family to carry. He is a shitty person! Yes, I said it and he deserves more shit talk for himself.

Shit, what made him think that he can borrow money without paying back? So he can just ignore the person who lend him money, now dad neeeds to carry his load? That’s bull  shit.

This almighty shitty person, who has a son in his parent’s house, doesn’t brother any shit to call . This poor baby is so insecure, he will just cry all the time.  And we wonder why we need to carry this shit load for him and his stupid wife!