Monthly Archives: June 2015

是 都是我的錯!

是我無理取鬧…. 是! 都是我的錯!  明明他已經道歉了我還是很生氣!

不是肥胖的人是無法理解,那樣的熱是多麼的難受

你不想想身上帶著比自己身體多出一百多磅的肥油,在這樣大熱的天氣下走路是多麼辛苦的事?! 那麼你試試看,背著兩包五十磅的米在 這麼熱的天氣在外面走走看呀~然後穿著最不舒服的鞋走走看….

我就是知道自己會在這樣炎熱的天氣下脾氣暴躁,所以提出要在最近的出口出去。

好呀, 你要辯駁怎樣走都是同一條街。

是沒錯,可是你帶路走到街的另外一邊。

而且在 mall 裡面走有冷氣,氣溫低幾度就是有差呀!

整個人在外面走是多麼不舒服!!!

而且,不是已經說了我穿著這鞋子不能走太多路?

你理直氣壯的說你的道理,然後妥協道歉,只是你不想看見我不講話

你道歉 我就一定要馬上原諒? 這是什麼道理?

我的氣 一點都消不下來

因為我覺得我講的話你沒有聽進去,我覺得我的感受被藐視。

是我說的不重要還是我的感受不重要?

到最後除了說是我的錯,我還能說什麼? 因為是我肥呀,這個沒錯了吧?

如果我沒有肥的話,就不會害怕熱天氣,走路不會累,穿鞋腳不會痛!

這樣說沒有錯呀! 都是我的問題就是了!

Doggies sitting |May 20- June 3, 2015

It was fun dog sitting for Dr. Deeks for two weeks. I was able to get to know Chelsea and Sophie, and spent time with them. Some people don’t like it when I say dog is like little children. But I would say that, they have similar traits. They will often test your boundaries and push your limits. They want to know when you will give in and let them do their ways. But I’m a no pusher, I mean, if the house is under my supervising I will do my best to keep everything under control.

Sophie is a two year old yorkie, who is still a puppy. She is full of energy and constantly asks for your attention. Do you understand doggie’s language? Sophie is so different than other dogs that I came across before. She’s not afraid to say what she needs. That being said, a dog owner must understand her language. You have to really pay attention to when and how she barks, in order to understand what she needs. This understanding must come from a strict routine, and dog owner’s observation to know what she is barking at.

Chelsea, on the other hand, is quite and gentle; maybe she is a little bit older… or a lot older. She is a 14 year old Shih Tzu crossed Bichon Frise. She is absolutely obedient, she would follow every commands even when it is against her will. This overweight doggie loves treats, and will steal food if she ever finds an opportunity. Being physically larger than Sophie, a little push can make her way to Sophie’s bowl with no problem. But I watched her, I stopped her, I commanded her to sit right next to me when Sophie was still finishing her meal. You could see the sparkling in her eyes, how she longs for few more nibbles of food. Like I said, she is absolutely obedient, she could’t resist my commands and ended up sitting far from Sophie.

The advantage of having a competitive dog and an obedient dog is that dog owner can train however you want them to be. I utilized Chelsea’s obedient to train Sophie to sleep on the floor. When I commanded Chelsea to go to bed, she would immediately follow and sleep on her bed while Sophie would still wander around the room. But I intentionally praise Chelsea with louder voice and with extra petting on her head. Gradually, Sophie who loves to seek human’s attention and affection, would want to be petted and praised during bed time. Her competitiveness drove her to walk to her bed, even it is against her will. Sophie, none the less, will do whatever it takes to be loved and praised.

These fluffy friends are precious and I’m glad to spend time with them. I learned so much spending time with them. I got to understand more of the relations between strict routine and behaviour. Also, positive and negative consequences after their each event, will influence how they behaviour later on.